At a young age I was exposed to a healthy dose of spending
time outdoors. We grew up in
the country and spent most of our waking hours outside. I just did not know any better. There were several things that geared
my upbringing to this. First we
basically had access to acres of woods and terrain. Second, we had no TV or
video games. And finally, my
brother and I probably drove my mom crazy and she made us stay outside until it
was time to come in and eat dinner and go to bed. As I grew up my parents would purposely plan a yearly
vacation to Colorado. We would
spend 2 weeks together as a family in the mountains. It was at a young age that I realized that I held the
outdoors and especially the mountains dear to my heart. I later went on to Guide for many years
in Colorado.
Here we are 10 years later. Enter a wife and 3 kids. My children’s ages are 7,4 and 5 months old. Life changes fast and we better change
with it or get run over! So how do
I make it a priority to get my children outside? Everywhere I look kids are punching away at I pads and I
Phones around every corner. Here
are 3 ways that I try to fight conformity and get my children outside.
1.) Turn of the TV
– I tell my kids that TV rots your brain and creativity. We do our best to limit the screen time
for our children. I think I have
almost convinced my wife to cancel our cable and put that extra $ towards 2x a
week gymnastics class for my girls.
Replace that time with something positive and encouraging.
2.) Purposefully schedule
outdoor activities – Put this stuff on your calendar and say NO to
everything else that tries to get in the way. Life bombards us with scheduling request and we need to sit
down and prioritize time outdoors with our family. SAY NO!!!!
Schedule time outdoors. It
could be as little as a picnic in the park or a 3-day weekend hike. Just purposely plan for it like
anything else.
3.) Surround yourself
with “Like Minded” Families. –
You know the old saying “Don’t be un-equally yoked”. Make a conscience effort to surround yourself with families
that share the same passion for the outdoors. If the company that you regularly interact with lets their
kids sit in front of a TV 3 hours a day and throws Twinkies at them for snacks,
don’t expect your kids to want to deviate from that. Make a conscience effort to weed out the bad and
replace with good. This applies to
all aspects in your life, but is real important that your community reflect
your values as a family.
Practice what you preach to your children. Actions speak louder than words and will
have a lasting effect on your children.
I think God designed us to be outside. At least, when I am able to enjoy
the outdoors I am a better man, husband and father. Your children will benefit long term from time spent
outdoors also.
What do you do to get your kids outside?
James loves the mountains and spends as much time in them as he can. He is also an avid snowboarder, cyclist and kayaker and the husband and father of a beautiful family! He is the founder of Outdoor Gear TV which began as a place to provide unbiased video product reviews of great gear (definitely check it out!) You can find him on Twitter and Facebook.
James loves the mountains and spends as much time in them as he can. He is also an avid snowboarder, cyclist and kayaker and the husband and father of a beautiful family! He is the founder of Outdoor Gear TV which began as a place to provide unbiased video product reviews of great gear (definitely check it out!) You can find him on Twitter and Facebook.
Great article. The one thing I do to get my son outside is make it part of the routine. We get outside everyday... hopefully as he grows up it'll just be part of who he is. (We also don't even have a TV which helps)
ReplyDeleteNo TV is awesome! And routine for my kids always is a good thing. Thanks Calgary Mom for the comments. Keep it up. It will always be part of who he is.
DeleteGood for you! I've been taking my kids out climbing, hiking and geocaching since they were very little. Despite growing up in an "extreme" suburban mall culture in NJ, they grew up to hate fashion and love the outdoors. I created a mailing list for other Gunks climbers with kids and it became very popular, now with around 80 families in the group. Having other families to climb with and other kids to play with, whether or not the kids actually climb, was a great way to get crag time by sharing the belaying and child-watching duties, and a great way to make new friends. When the opportunity presented itself, we bolted from the NJ suburbs to live next to the Gunks, and my kids were thrilled to get out of the materialistic mall culture of the suburbs and have the Gunks as their backyard.
ReplyDeleteMaking a physical move to be closer to outdoors and away from the "suburban" culture is awesome! Looks like we may be doing the same thing here soon..You are shaping the future for your children...I love it...and congrats on that. As John Muir said "The Mountains are calling and I must go" :)
DeleteGreat post! I love the point you make about surrounding yourself with like-minded families. It is something we do without realizing it, but it does make a huge difference in our children's attitudes.
ReplyDeleteThanks Tiffany...It makes a big difference in every area of your life for sure!
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