We are all busy. Everyone has jobs, family, work, cleaning, bills and things that just
have to get done.
Yes, it is certainly cliche, but
those things will be there later too.
One of the most difficult parts of getting outside is just getting out the door. Believe me, I know. With two kids, it is not unusual for it to take me 45 (FORTY-FIVE!) minutes to get out the door. Snowsuits, hats, meltdowns, gloves, pacifiers, meltdowns, snacks, KLEENEX! (I have had that yelled at me a lot lately as we fight colds), CHANGE ME! (another fun one), meltdowns, bribes, meltdowns and a huge sigh as we all tumble out the door.
How can it be possible to have time to get outside every day (yes, I even ask myself this question...daily)? And again, I will say, how is it NOT possible to
make the time (for the good of
all involved?)
It makes us happier as a family.
Last Friday we planned a family hike/walk for as soon as Mountain Papa got home for work. My job was to have myself and the kids ready to walk out the door when he arrived (again, not an easy feat.) His job was to be home before dark.
We both carried a kid (thank you,
Kelty and
Deuter!) and spent 45 minutes in the badlands behind our home. As a couple it gave us some time to decompress from the day (between talking with J and fielding his questions and comments, of course.) It gave the boys some fresh air and chance to just watch (or sleep). We are blessed to have such a landscape behind us, but there is certainly nothing wrong with a family walk around the neighborhood (and we have certainly done this too!)
Yes, I should have been making dinner (or planned well enough in advance to have that dinner ready to go.) Yes, dinner was late. Yes, I nearly gave up and decided fighting the meltdowns wasn't worth it. But, the truth is we never regret being out there and things (almost) always calm down once we are.
How do you fit it in? How do you make getting outside happen amidst the craziness of life? Any tips to share?